Just writting...

Hi..just had time writing some post on my blog...its been a busy yet interesting day today..i've learned a lot today..that is about human behavior..how it can affect our surroundings...

Hurm… what to say today… I haf a lot of thing to say… but I don’t know where to start plang… talking back about love… should we give and devote ourselves to the one we love 100% without any doubt?... or according to my theory… should love be something where ‘trust’ is not the main issue but ‘commitment’ is the focus of each relationship. Why did I said that… hurm… I hope this will make sense to you… imagine you have a partner… and you are being loyal to them devoting yourself to them, in return expecting them to love you back with all their hearts… that sound just like a romantic episode in a Korean movie or series…. But the truth is would you trust them 100% without any conspiracy on your mind? Will you stand not to look at any other “suitable” people or partner who is constantly coming in and out of your life… trying hard to knock your already taken heart… and would your partner stand if he is teased with the same situation olso… nah… here comes the word “commitment”… well “trust” wouldn’t be a great issue anymore because no one is trusting anyone nowadays….

So why fight about ‘trust’ when you can overpower the trust with commitment… when you have trouble with your partner never expose or reveal all of your secret to them… because it could be a lethal weapon for them to go against you when your relationship started to tremble… in fact when you are with your partner… try to give some or should I say a huge amount of commitment to them… because this is the only time you and your partner are together… and “White Lies” should help you a lot here… it’s not that you and your partner will be together 24/7… surely they want their own space too… so while you got the chance of being together… give you full commitment to them… so that whatever happened… you will cherish every moment together with your partner… there will be something to remember… and after that it is up to you if you kan have fun or ‘cari makan’ or hasil di luar… because you already know that you have done a good job satisfying the needs and wants of you partner… returning back their love to you… but trust me dear… this is only my opinion…

EJD